Man said he will commit suicide to his friend and they laughed it over, but he later did.(read details)

A Zambian man has committed suicide after saying he will do such in jokes to his friend on a Facebook chat, it was gathered that when he made the comment of committing suicide they both laughed over it, later one of his friends advised him to go on and commit suicide, not knowing that he is serious about it, and kept to his jokes and went ahead and committed suicide. The lad identified as Mpanjilwa Mulwanda hanged himself on July 24, and his death has been trending on social media ever since.
 One of his pals posted this about him, READ THE POST BELOW.


"I never knew Mpanjilwa Mulwanda personally but after learning what transpired, seemed he mentioned taking his life to his friends who took it as a joke & probably never talked him out as much as they should have. I know how friendship is but anyway, one thing this has personally taught me is we should learn to encourage love amongst ourselves.
You never know what people are going through & just a few encouraging words from you could be what would stop someone from doing something unimaginable, we really need more wise & encouraging people for a better tomorrow . It's so unfortunate the brother is gone & nothing can be done about that but we can definitely avoid more incidents like this by loving one another more than expressing hate all in trying to seem like a star. R.I.P Mpanjilwa"
Another Zambian Facebook user, Joseph Kamfwa called on the police to arrest those friends who encouraged him to take his his life.
"ZAMBIA POLICE
Do people a favor- arrest and question all those kids who were pushing their friend to commit suicide. They are as guilty as someone charged with 2nd degree murder. It's high time Zambians learned limits to conversation"

Please no matter what you are going through in life, try your best not to let it come over you, because their are people who are through more difficulties than you and if get to know, you will thank God for your self, Now this young man has killed himself, only God knows the problem he is passing through, has his problems been solved, KNOW, rather it has been increased by his death. Another important part of life is, try and keep friends that will always give you good advises on issues, not the ones that will encourage you on being a hard man in retaliation depending on what your problem is, search for friends not colleagues, I don't know if you will understand that, let me explain, Friends are those mates of yours that will understand your life and try to help you amend it, by dragging you out from the wrong lane and place you at the lane of positivists that will yield fruits in the near future. Now Colleague, A colleague is a partner on a particular activity or company, they don't give advises to benefit each other, they give advises to favor the activity that both of you belong to, so they are not friends, sometime they might assist but their assistance is simply because you are in the same group with them, eg Fellow cultist, is not a friend but a colleague, he will only advise you to keep the legacy of the group not to your predicaments which is more important to you than any thing else.
    

Another thing is, Try and share your problems to people they might give you words of encouragement and learn to know people's lifestyle so you will know the kind of friends you tell issues concerning your life to prevent you from making the mistake of letting evil minded people no about it. Take this words of advise, it will help you in your everyday life.


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